Disadvantage of being handsome

I’d say i’m a pretty handsome guy, and girls tell me so so i have no reason to argue.
but I did notice that it only started later in my life, i guess i matured well idk.
Plus i work out more, eat healthier and dress better than I used to, so i’m sure that makes a difference.
So I have noticed a stark difference in the way i’m treated (remember i live in the US so it may be different for US readers)

1. Gays- Gay men stare at men the way men stare at women. It’s annoying and infuriating and makes me want to fight but I’m not an so i refrain. Either way the worst part about it is gay men staring or trying to talk to you. So when a guy you think is straight glances at your arm or chest. Abomination

2. Older Women- Older women are pushy and aggressive and don’t know when to turn it off. The worst part is the boldest ones are the ugliest more condemned cargo. You have a flock of obasanjo looking women constantly making you uncomfortable. The worst is they’re openly biased towards you and will talk about you to everyone creating a lot of awkward tension and unwanted attention.

3. Assumed to be a player- Women assume you’re a player for no reason. They’ll take you less seriously and question your motives the whole time.

4. Jealous Men- The most women think im handsome the more men want to fight or beef me. They constantly think I’m trying to compete with them, and CONSTANTY beefing and fighting are key. What makes it worst is a lot of their girlfriends will try to give them an impression that they like you so that their boyfriend can fight you and she can feel like he loves her more. Men become more preoccupied with you and your motives and life becomes more dramatic and complex.

5. Being called gay- The stereotype in the US is if you’re an attractive well dress man you’re gay as Americans expect their men to be simple dressers and not good looking.

6. Attracting useless women- Sure you attract more girls, but with the quantity comes a drop in quality. You’ll constantly run into useless superficial women with no substance while the ones with substance are not phased or impressed by your looks.

7.Amebor- Everyone’s in your business and wants to know who you’re sleeping with.

8. Voltrons- You get women that you don’t want that won’t leave you alone no matter what. They’ll stalk your facebook liking everything you do, constantly talk about you, and acting like you’re their best friend. A lot of them will being acting like they’re your best friend before they tell you their name. You can always find these if they use your name in every sentence while talking to you.

9. Women playing games with your name- lastly, women will use your name to play games. If you joke with one she’ll tell everyone you were flirting with her. If you flirt with her she’ll tell everyone you guys were ‘talking’ or ‘had something’. If you sleep with one girl, any girl you like they will tell that one girl that you slept with the previous girl. They’ll gossip with your name to build themselves up and to tear down your chances with other women out of jealousy.

Like i said, I’ve probably matured well but it didn’t used to be this way. Either way I’m happy with the way I look now


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1. When you wake up in the morning, Pray to ask God’s guidance for your purpose, today.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

3. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. & while you walk, SMILE.
It is the ultimate antidepressant.

4. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

5. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, broccoli, and almonds.

6. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

7. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

8. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

9. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

10. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Forgive them for everything !

11. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

12.You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

13. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.

14. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

15. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

16. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: ‘In five years, will this matter?’

17. Help the needy,Be generous ! Be a ‘Giver’ not a ‘Taker’

18. What other people think of you is none of your business.

19. Time heals everything.

20. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

21. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

22. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

23. Each night before you go to bed ,Pray to God and Be thankful for what you’ll accomplish, today !

24. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.


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A 27-year-old undergraduate of University of Port Harcourt, Ebube Gladys has been announced as the winner of the “MTN Ultimate Wonder Promo” this afternoon. Congrats to her. In case you don’t know, she won a plane. But she went for its equivalent in cash which is the sum of N64m.

Gud am:ABC’s Of Marriage/Relationships

A – Abandon Selfishness and Be Open to Change

B – Bestow Praise on One Another

C – Call Home if Running Late

D – Dream Dreams Together

E – Enjoy Learning New Discoveries About One Another

F – Flowers Say Much

G – Grins Can Be Life Giving in Your Marriage

H – Hands are for Holding

I – Invest Your Time, Talent and Treasure on Your Marriage Relationship

J – Journey Together and Share Expectations

K – Know How to Have Fun Together

L – Love is a Decision

M – Make Time for Being Alone Together

N – Negativity is Death Dealing in Any Relationship

O – Obliterate Jumping to Conclusions

P – Plan for Passion

Q – Quit Quarreling Constantly — If the issue is over 48 hours old, let it go!

R – Remember Special Days, e.g. Anniversaries,Birthdays

S – Share Feelings on a Daily Basis

T – Take Lots of Pictures and Create Great Memories

U – Unity Creates Joy

V – Vacations are Not Luxuries – Make Time to Re-Create

W – Write Love Letters to One Another

X – Xmas is a Time for Building Traditions, Not for Creating Tension

Y – Yearn for a Great Marriage, Not Just a Good One, By Supporting One Another

Z – Zestfulness Breeds Excitement

Former Gov. Of Oyo Alhaji Lam Adeshina is dead. He died in the early hours of today Sunday Novemebr 11, 2012. The ex Gov will be buried later today in Ibadan. TVC report